Weymouth & Portland · Dorset Pain Management Service

Pain is real.
And there is more
you can do.

Living with ongoing pain is exhausting. It can affect your body, your mood, your sleep, and your sense of who you are. This page won’t pretend otherwise.

You may have already tried many things, with mixed or limited results. That is frustrating, and it is worth saying so.

But the science of pain has changed. We now know that pain is not only about injury or damage. It is also shaped by how the nervous system responds over time. And that means there may be more you can do.

“Pain is not an accurate measure of tissue damage. It is a signal — and signals can be turned down.”

01
Understand your pain

New science has changed how we think about persistent pain. Understanding it is the first step to changing it.

02
Relate to it differently

Fighting pain often makes it louder. There are ways to change your relationship with it, without giving in.

03
Live well alongside it

Recovery isn’t always about pain disappearing. It’s about reclaiming your life, gradually, steadily, on your terms.

Understand your pain

The science of persistent pain has changed dramatically. These short videos explain why pain persists, and why that’s actually good news.

Relate to pain differently

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is recommended by NICE for chronic pain. It doesn’t ask you to eliminate pain. It helps you change your relationship with it so it takes up less of your life.

“Where ACT differs from most other approaches is that we don’t try to avoid or get rid of the pain. Instead, we aim to fundamentally change your relationship with it. And as we do that, the pain itself transforms. It no longer holds you back in the same way.” — Russ Harris

These resources are specifically about pain, not general stress or anxiety. They are all free.

Live well alongside pain

Recovery from persistent pain is rarely about pain disappearing completely. It’s about doing more of what matters, gradually, steadily, without the boom-and-bust cycle.

Pacing

Break the boom-and-bust cycle

Many people with persistent pain overdo it on good days and then crash. Pacing means spreading activity across the day and resting before pain rises, not after.

Break tasks into smaller chunks Use a timer, stop before pain spikes Steady progress beats bursts and crashes
Movement

Move, gently, gradually, safely

Movement helps calm the nervous system. NICE recommends yoga and Tai Chi for chronic pain. You don’t need to be fit to start. Low and slow is the rule.

Short walks, seated stretches, gentle yoga Tai Chi for pain and balance Increase one thing at a time
Flare-ups

When pain increases

Flares are common and don’t mean you’ve done damage. They are part of the process, not a sign of failure. The goal is to return to your routine, not to stop altogether.

Lower activity temporarily, don’t stop completely Try breathing: 4 seconds in, 6 seconds out Review sleep and stress, they feed flares
Sleep

Pain and sleep, a two-way street

Poor sleep makes pain worse. Better sleep makes everything more manageable. Small habits make a real difference over time.

Keep a regular bedtime, even at weekends Wind down without screens for 30 minutes Avoid long daytime naps
Learn more

Retrain Pain

Videos, exercises and simple explanations to help calm and retrain the pain system. Free and easy to use between appointments.

retrainpain.org · Free
Dorset

Dorset Pain Management Service

The Four Pillars of Pain Management, videos, audio guides, support groups and online platform, all from the Dorset Pain Service.

dorsetpain.org.uk · Free

You are not alone

Many people across Dorset live with ongoing pain. These local services can help with the wider picture, confidence, mood, movement, and connection.

When to contact your GP or seek urgent help

  • New bladder or bowel problems
  • New weakness in your limbs
  • Pain after significant trauma
  • Unexplained weight loss or fever
  • Rapidly worsening neurological symptoms
  • Sudden or significant change in your pain
  • Pain that is stopping you coping day to day
  • If you are struggling emotionally, call NHS 111

Call 999 or go to A&E if someone is in immediate danger or you are very worried that waiting is not safe.